It has been close to two
months since we broke up. Well… I terminated the relationship. I have felt free
in a transcendent way ever since. I cannot explain how unhappy I truly was
until I gathered the strength to walk away.
Okay, it wasn’t all that
hard. But, after I ended it I began to realize what a time thief it was. I was
somehow addicted to Facebook for all of my world information. Then… I was free.
I deleted my profile and ran away. Ya’know? It was the best choice. Now, I’m
sure I could blog about how the massive data sell-off that hit the news convinced
me, as I am a person of mindful character. It happened around the same time and
it was a small part, yet it was more about the obligations of connections to Facebook
groups and friend lists. Mostly it was that I would no longer explore the web
for new blogs and sites to discover. Yes, we know that blogging has long been
killed off thanks to Facebook posts. Why write a page of experience when we can
post on our page for our selective connections to comment? Facebook gives us a
formatted list of discussions and opinions for better or worse. It is not
exploring new ideas, it is tailoring your audience to your taste. It also sets
up a battle field that makes us a hero to supporters whilst tearing those that
dare to have an opposing opinion.
After the big delete, I
find that I am exploring for my news again. I am going down nerdy rabbit-holes
of nerd stuffs. Back in 2008 I had pages and pages of blogs and obscure content
I followed. Did you know that Tumbr is still around??? Wow. Stunned.
Mike the roommate, who
will always keep it real with me, says it’s because I get a rush of self-satisfaction
(holier-than-thou) by being able to say, ”I… I don’t DO Facebook.” And, he is
right about that. It feeds that special snowflake hipster that lives in side of
me. He is a bitch. The old man in me says it’s nice to not bother with all that
family and friend drama. Both sides are excited about exploring the web and not
having it tailored and edited for me.
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