This last weekend was my niece’s graduation
from high school. Saturday night was the big graduation party at my sister’s
house. The house, festooned in black and orange looked like a tasteful
Halloween party. It took me awhile to calculate that the “fighting Olympians”
have the black and orange as their signature colors.
My niece is an out going and fun/smart girl. She lettered in
Theater, just like her uncle. This means that after four years of being a
theater nerd, she is friends with every gay black and orange covered
Olympian. All of which were
bouncing around the big graduation party.
I find this amazing. The fact that my niece has a circle of
gay best friends, yet more importantly that they are all out of the closet and
living honest lives. It appeared to be just no big deal, a normal group of
kids. I immediately called my Ex/Best Friend to relay the scene. Both Dalton
and I had struggled greatly through our high school years. Closeted and
repressed as we found our only refuge in the Theater Club during our high
school years. I relayed the
extraordinary idea that guys now come out of the closet in their freshman year
and are considered “cool.”
What is cool is the fact that kids are having a completely
different childhood to my generation. Their teenage years are filled with
dating, having fun, and just being normal. They are now getting teased for
average stuff like having dorky sneakers or for wearing glasses, not for who
they are down to their very soul.
The kids will change everything in the future
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ReplyDeleteI love this.
ReplyDeleteThis made me smile, all the way to the bottom of my feet!
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I can only imagine what that would have been like... I would have been the kid begging my bff to introduce me to her hot uncle.
ReplyDeleteI wish I had had that experience instead of being scared that everyone would hate me.
ReplyDeleteThank Honey! I appreciate the kind words about our daughter. We did our best to raise her to respect herself and others. Love you!
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