Our tastes have just evolved. He now has a boyfriend and for all intents and purposes, we are in a triad. This means I get two Christmas presents and two birthday presents. Jim, Fuzzy's boy, came along with us on the big gay cruise, and fits perfectly into our lives.
This also means that I have been exploring the dating scene. I would call it dating; but, really the act entails hunting down and pouncing on unsuspecting twenty year olds.
What the future holds is anyone's guess. Fuzzy, Jim, and I have started house shopping, but with the understanding that my inner chicken hawk will eventually bring a boy into the happy home. Or, some other situation will dictate the needs of all.
interesting! don't settle for blah, only quality!
ReplyDeletepeople grow and change; I am not the same woman my spouse married 22 years ago. but I don't think we could each bring in another. speaking for myself only, my "hotness factor" quit about 20 years ago and retired to FL.
Wow... very interesting... I think all relationships evolve in different ways over the years and who knows where they will end up... enjoy the extra presents, I know I would... hugs!
ReplyDeleteGlad you guys are secure enough in all of that. This could make for some very interesting posts......with video, of course.
ReplyDeleteSo it will become a quad.
ReplyDeleteWho sleeps in which bed?
And the most important question - who gets control of the remote.
thanks for sharing! It probably feels like a second coming out for you to share this. Not everyone "gets" non-traditional relationship formulations.
ReplyDeleteWe are in a similar situation, just finding it difficult to find the right match for us. Dating is challenging these days. Hard work but lots of potential benefits...keep us posted!