Sunday, August 24, 2014

Changes

So as many of you have noticed and sent in questions to the blog; yes, I am dating. Or, to say I'm on the hunt for a quality boy to date. This doesn't mean that Fuzzy and I have ended our eight year run, in fact just the opposite. We're stronger than ever. 

Our tastes have just evolved. He now has a boyfriend and for all intents and purposes, we are in a triad. This means I get two Christmas presents and two birthday presents. Jim, Fuzzy's boy, came along with us on the big gay cruise, and fits perfectly into our lives. 

This also means that I have been exploring the dating scene. I would call it dating; but, really the act entails hunting down and pouncing on unsuspecting twenty year olds. 

What the future holds is anyone's guess. Fuzzy, Jim, and I have started house shopping, but with the understanding that my inner chicken hawk will eventually bring a boy into the happy home. Or, some other situation will dictate the needs of all. 


5 comments:

anne marie in philly said...

interesting! don't settle for blah, only quality!

people grow and change; I am not the same woman my spouse married 22 years ago. but I don't think we could each bring in another. speaking for myself only, my "hotness factor" quit about 20 years ago and retired to FL.

Kelly Stern said...

Wow... very interesting... I think all relationships evolve in different ways over the years and who knows where they will end up... enjoy the extra presents, I know I would... hugs!

Blobby said...

Glad you guys are secure enough in all of that. This could make for some very interesting posts......with video, of course.

Damien said...

So it will become a quad.

Who sleeps in which bed?

And the most important question - who gets control of the remote.

James & Anthony said...

thanks for sharing! It probably feels like a second coming out for you to share this. Not everyone "gets" non-traditional relationship formulations.

We are in a similar situation, just finding it difficult to find the right match for us. Dating is challenging these days. Hard work but lots of potential benefits...keep us posted!